Body Language Blog

Body Language of confidence

2008-01-14T02:18:30Z

Confidence is an extremely important part of any persons life.

People judge you based on your confidence.

If someone appears confident, we assume they are competent. We generally like them more, and respect them.

We generally judge peoples confidence based on their body language.

And people judge your confidence based on your body language!

If you know the signs of confidence, you can improve your body language so that others think you are more confident.

This also has a surprising benefit, which you can read about in my latest article...

Body Language- How to appear more confident

Body Language- 5 Signs A Guy Is Attracted To You

2008-01-08T06:59:50Z

Sometimes reading guys can be quite hard. Even in this day and age, men try to hide their feelings, so they wont appear "soft" in front of their friends. They worry that showing emotions will make them appear weak, so many men will do their best to mask their feelings.

Luckily, the untrained mind cannot consciously control all body language signals. As long as the guy hasn't been studying body language, it's unlikely he will know what signals he is giving off.

This means that if you know what to look for, you'll be able to read guys like a book, no matter how hard they try and hide their feelings!

1. Look for a smile.

It may sound simple, but one of the most important things to look for is a smile.

If a guy is attracted to you, then he will feel happy and comfortable looking at you. And he will usually show this in the form of a smile.

Now... this may not be a huge, beaming smile. It could even be quite tentative.

The important point is that he seems happy to see you, and isn't frowning or indifferent.

Flirting Tips: How NOT To Use Eye Contact

2008-01-07T01:05:49Z

The other day I was with my husband at the pub, and saw a great example of how NOT to use body language to flirt. My husband was on the dance floor, and I was walking through to join him. Before I reached him though, I noticed a young girl that had her eye on him. Now- I don't mind that (I trust my husband), but what I saw next amazed me! She walked right up to him (About a foot in front of his face). She slowly looked over his whole body and then she stared right at him, for about a minute! Talk about aggressive flirting! Now- she was doing one thing right- eye contact is an important part of flirting. But she was doing two things wrong- which totally ruined the effect. Firstly- she maintained eye contact way too long. She should have looked away a few times. Blinking wouldn't have hurt as well! But the second thing she did wrong was even worse! The whole time she was doing this little flirting "performance", she didn't smile once! Not a single time! My husband then turned away from her, and the girl walked away unhappily. The first thing he did when he saw me was tell me about the whole thing (See, I told you I can trust him!) I asked him the effect the body language had on him. He said it was almost intimidating, and that her body language made her seem like a predator, on the prowl for a man. Now- was this the effect the girl wanted? Possibly... but probably not. I doubt she wants to scare men off- but that's exactly what she is doing. Make sure you don't make the same mistake! Look... I'm not saying eye contact isn't important- It is! But make sure you smile a little as well! It makes all the difference! And don't forget to look away occasionally!

Body Language Mirroring

2008-01-05T03:30:44Z

Body Language "Mirroring", is a technique that can be used to subconsciously make men feel more attracted to you.

It's a simple technique to learn, but it's very powerful.

It's basically just copying (or "mirroring"), another person's body language. It works because we automatically like people that we feel are like us.

Find out more here

Flirting Tips For Woman

2008-01-04T10:25:12Z

For many women, the thought of flirting with a man can be quite scary.

They thinking that flirting is complicated, and confusing.

But it doesn't have to be.

Flirting really doesn't have to be complicated. In fact, many of the simplest flirting techniques are the most effective.

For example, one of the most powerful flirting techniques is to look a man in the eye, and smile naturally. This is very powerful, and has some other surprising side-benefits as well!

Find out more in my latest article: Flirting Tips for Women

Reading a man's body language

2008-01-03T02:46:55Z

Sometimes it can be quite hard to understand men. But if you develop the skill of reading a man's bodylanguage, it becomes much easier.

I've written something to get you started...

Reading a man's bodylanguage

Eye Contact

2008-01-02T03:00:04Z

Body Language can be quite a complex subject.

There are lots of things to look for- facial expressions, hand movements, how the body leans, etc.

And there is also the complex subject of flirting.

For beginners in can often seem overwhelming... but it doesn't have to be.

The trick is to learn bits of body language, and slowly increase your skills.

One of the simplest parts of body language to learn is eye contact. It's easy to learn, and gives you a great insight into what a man is thinking.

You can find out more from the article I just wrote...

Is He Interested In Me? The Body Language Of The Eyes..